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The resurrection of  The Death of Conversation and the rise of the Deadly Network:

I posted my original ‘Death of Conversation’  photo series (link) around 5 years ago, when smartphone usage had appeared to have reached its peak but it has massively increased even since then. They have become so dominant in our lives it is now difficult to imagine life before them. Did people actually used to speak to each other? Was eye contact ever a thing? Could you walk down the street and not walk into people who are glued to their screens? What did couples do when they didn’t want to communicate with each other? How did anyone cope without notifications telling them someone they don’t really know had thought of them for a fleeting nanosecond?

Technology has infiltrated our lives to such an extent, it is now feels like it is our digital existence which is being interrupted by our reality rather than the other way round. We are now all living in fully immersive online bubbles which are only occasionally penetrated by the world we actually live in. There is not a single aspect of your life which cannot be delivered by your device. And you can physically see our dependance to them as everyone clings onto their phones like they are an external organ, attached by an invisible umbilical cord. And in the relatively short time I have had one it has become very evident to me that the best thing and the worst thing about smartphones is they do everything.

Back in 2014 when I was documenting the rise of the smartphone I was mercilessly free from its invasive clutches and it gave me the perspective I needed to observe this modern phenomena. Sadly I had to succumb last year as I fucked up my ears at Carnival and couldn’t hear anyone on my stupid dumbphone so had to borrow Mrs. Romero’s old iphone which I only took as it had a speaker loud enough. And as feared it took over and I immediately found myself on it  infinitely more than I wanted to be. I found it such an intrusion on my life I immediately tried to claw back control. I took off every app I could keeping only the basics they wouldn’t let me delete. I got a watch so I didn’t fall in the ‘rabbit hole’ for 15 mins every time I took it out to look at the time. I continued to use my notebook rather than switch to digi notes. I kept my diary on my wallplanner at home. I used my actual camera instead of the built-in one and did everything I could not to look at when ‘in motion’ and become yet another blind smombie walking down the road with no sensory awareness whatsoever. And although this all helped to reduce screen time I still found that it was in an out of my pocket like a friggin’ yoyo.  And if I was with someone and they started using theirs, I got out mine and flicked through shit I didn’t really need to look at.

It was no surprise to learn recently that some of the original designers of smartphones confessed they had basically created ‘digital crack’ and deliberately so, on the behest of their employers, and they were now admitting there were a multitude of negative effects to the consumer as a result. Especially for kids who learn everything by observation who now never looked at anything but their devices. These Silicon valley tech pioneers are now so convinced of the detrimental effects of excessive usage they are sending their kids to digi-free analogue schools. As it is always there in your pocket it is now regarded as one of the most addictive drugs out there because you can access it whenever you like and as all good drug dealers know…don’t get high on your own supply.

Many of my original ‘death of conversation’ series and the ones this week focus as much on the person that is being ignored as the one glued to their device. It was this ‘rejection’ I was interested, as the person is knocked down the league table of importance despite actually being present. This is compensated by people withdrawing into their own devices and playing revenge rejection when the opportunity strikes. All the while our closest relationships suffer as they are superseded for something deemed more worthy of attention than them. And its also really fucking boring being with someone on one. It’s worse than being on your own as you are in this weird vacuum where neither the connection of face to face communication or the calm of solitude exist. And I think it was seeing themselves in these disenchanted faces which made the series connect with people all over the world who were experiencing the same thing.

Now, with the recent arrival of 5G, it may be more than just our relationships which are at risk. There is a ton of information out there showing that the gi-normous increase in intensified radiation waves will be pumped out by the 5g networks across every square inch of the country, are harmful, potentially dangerous and even lethal to humans and other living creatures. We already have massive amounts of radiation waves in our lives thru wifi, microwaves and smart meters (don’t get one!)  and this new tech is being rolled out with no testing whatsoever. None! We are the guinea pigs and  they simply don’t give a fuck what happens to us as long as they can shift units. If you want to know more you can start by watching this doc on youtube  called: 5G Apocalypse – The Extinction Event.  (Link) or you can read this appeal which is signed by scientists, doctors  and environmentalists around the world : (link)

The risks and concerns are not being reported by the mainstream press at all, so you will need to do your own research on this but this is something that you absolutely want to know about and will affect us all. And just because they aren’t reporting it doesn’t mean to say it isn’t a real threat. They barely reported climate change in the last decade but turns out pretending it wasn’t happening didn’t stop it from happening..burying our heads in the sand is not a very effective solution, as we shall soon find out…

It is scary as fuck and even if you take into account potential areas for conspiracy fears and anti-tech paranoia, there is still a Everest size mountain of evidence showing this is definitely not a good thing. And furthermore, it is not something we need. Is it really necessary to be able to download a film in 20 seconds? Don’t we spend more time online than we should  anyway? Aren’t we all trying to spend more time in the real world and with the people we care about rather than in our isolated digi existence? The reason they want us connected is simple. When are hooked in, we consume and we use their products. That is all they care about. If it fucks you up in the process, either physically or mentally, it is not a concern of theirs. As I said,  they’re drug dealers. And when did they ever give a monkeys about the welfare of their clients? And our governments are clearly not going to protect us from this singular psychopathic pursuit of profit over people so we are on our own.

And not wishing to add to the burden of impending climate catastrophe we now all carry around on our shoulders, this is now something else we need to worry about. Maybe you regret even reading this but I always feel it is better to be informed than not. Your cognitive dissonance (definition) is no doubt kicking in now anyway and you will most likely switch off from thinking about this almost immediately as you can’t reconcile it and can’t deal with it. And so we go on..for now. But please read about it before you consider getting a 5g phone or join a 5g network and if you can keep away from your device and only look at it when you absolutely have to (which will, let’s be honest, will redux it down by about 75%) it might improve not only your health but also your life…your real one that is…remember that?

 

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The Death of Conversation – the TED talk!

Me and my mouth in Italy, my take on smartphone living, my TED talk

I was kindly invited out to a TEDx event in Bergamo in Italy to give a TED talk on the subject of my photograph series “the death of conversation”. It was featured in friday in this article in the Huffington post (click here to see) written about me on friday which has itself already gone viral. I kind of thought this might have died down by now but the subject of smartphones and their continued presence in our lives seems to be gaining momentum rather than subsiding as the backlash movement rises. Hopefully through discussion we can work out a way to have them and reap the positive rewards of these amazing techno gadgets without suffering the negative impact their use can cause to our relationships, our social skills and inhibit our ability to live in the moment.

The Death Of Conversation

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I originally took these photographs as it was something I kept seeing over and over again as well as experiencing first hand. It originally caught my eye as there was a certain symmetry to these people locked simultaneously yet separately in the same action and it appealed on a visual level, but as I continued I noticed an inherent sadness to the proceedings. I saw that smartphones were becoming a barrier to communication in person. I saw how people used it as a social prop, to hide their awkwardness, to fill the silence but as I continued to observe and document this modern phenomena I felt that the devices were actually causing the awkwardness and the silence. They basically allow people to withdraw rather than engage. 

All social etiquette regarding the use of phones in company seems to have disappeared. The device take precedence over the person that is present and that felt wrong. It is a form of rejection and lowers the self-worth of the person super-ceded for a device. I feel it also highlighted a growing sense of self-absorption in people as they would rather focus on their world in their phone rather than speak to the person they are with.

When I noticed and photographed these people, they do not even seem present in the real world. They are “plugged in” to a virtual world of their own making. I have nothing against technology at all but I feel it is starting to affect social cohesion and we need to know when to switch it off or we will become permanently switched off from each other. The strange and interesting phenomena is that people are starting to derive more pleasure from their “computer cuddles” than from their person to person interactions. Personally I find online communication quite sterile and a very poor substitute to its face to face counterpart but you can see that a lot of people are searching more and more into the virtual world for their emotional fixes than in the real world which is crazy. I think the visible rise of narcissm might be the tipping factor as they know that every single thing that arrives on their device is somehow connected to them whereas in conversation you are not always the focus. Its almost as if we are starting to become incapable of processing someone else’s life because we have become so pre-occupied with our own.

It has to be said…smartphones have made everyone seriously dull. You’re in company, so act like it. I know everyone else is doing it but that is how nazi germany started. Yes, it stops you feeling awkward and lets you pretend to be doing something rather than engage in conversation but just leave it alone for five minutes and see how you get on…you might be alright. Disappearing into your phone certainly isn’t going to help. You know what you’re looking at can wait, you know its not important so just put it away. It was actually better when cigarettes were used as social props, yes it killed you but at least people were more fun to hang out with. Bore off!

Additional: This gallery of photographs has gone viral around the world since they were featured on the www.boredpanda.com and the global response has shown how much of an issue it is. Hundreds of comments have been left discussing this topic with people both defensive and confessional about their own use but the most poignant remarks and the bulk of reactions are related to how miserable and rejected it makes people feel and how sad they think it is that we are disconnecting from each other. The rise of the smartphone has been so rapid that we have not had time to work out the social etiquette but we desperately need to put some ground rules in place to stop it having a detrimental affect on our inter-personal relations.

One of the most amazing things from this project has been that people have got in touch to tell me that it has helped them and their immediates tackle the problem by questioning when it is appropriate to use and when it isn’t. If you are suffering in silence in the company of your partners, families and friends as they prioritise their phone life over their real life why not confront the situation and set up some basic boundaries…altho you might have to message them to get their attention!