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Several sightings in several days. Is the Prince of Denmark back? Is it some nod to their being something rotten in the borough of kensington and chelsea? Or a Shakespeare fan trying to illicit more reading of the classics? It doesn’t sound like a graffiti taggers name nor does the style look like it so what’s the deal? Am curious…will the real Hamlet please stand up?

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This scrawled statement puzzled me. I had no idea what this meant so I looked it up and apparently BUFF stands for Big Fat Ugly Fuck which is a pretty horrendous acronym. Who knew? Not me. But even with this information I still have no idea why someone would graffiti this? Why would they be trying to incite this? Do they feel they are part of this demographic and are trying to illicit some action? Or maybe they’re trying to encourage others to embark on carnal relations with people who fit this category out of some bizarre sense of civic duty?

Maybe this is a declaration of body positivity and a call to arms to reject the perfection peddled in advertising and on social media? Or maybe the author of this confusing statement had been harassed by members of this group  and was consequently expressing their anger and defiance towards them? I kind of wished I hadn’t looked it up.

I thought it was written by someone who didn’t like people being in the nude. This did seemed pretty random and made no real sense as you are mostly without clothes for the act they are suggesting  but I preferred this theory to the knowledge of the real meaning which is actually pretty hateful. Whoever did this clearly has issues but I am curious to what motivated them to bother in the first place. There is no artistic skill here, no purpose. It’s just a mess. And a nasty mess at that.

 

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Happy new year people! Kicking off 2019 with some hopeful positivity…

(Normal service will resume next week)

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This week’s photographs were all on the theme of isolation.

And this will be my last post for the year, so hope you have a lovely break over the holidays. And even though we are surrounded by doom and gloom, I think its always worth remembering the following:

If you have a roof over your head you are winning

If you have food on your plate you are winning

If you have people in your life  you are winning

If you have love in your life you are winning

Survival is victory. You exist, you are winning.

Everything else is just details…see you in 2019!

 

 

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Saturday 12.10am. City of London

These ladies were out on a night out, supposedly to have a good time but spent almost the entire duration of their evening doing back to back photo shoots, endlessly reviewing and repeating, searching for the ultimate shot to post. I did a post recently on ‘selfie girls’ (https://babycakesromero.com/myldn-1156/) and this was one of the most relentless examples I have seen. Inbetween they were glued to their phones, their digital existence dominating their real life experience to such an unnatural degree it left no space for anything else. They should have been having fun but they didn’t look like they were. In fact, they barely interacted beyond their discussions over the documentation of a night that didn’t really exist in any real sense.

Ironically they didn’t seem to care what anyone in the room thought of them (who actually barely noticed them because they also were on their phones) but they would undoubtedly care how they would be received and perceived by their online followers, many of whom they wouldn’t know and would never meet…Digi 1 Reality 0

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Monday 3rd: 1:32am

You will have to take my word for it but this is Charlie heaton who plays the older brother in Stranger Things doing a handstand on the dancefloor after a round of shots at a party at Laylow in West London. He was very excitable and highly exuberant.

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The policy of austerity which slashed council budgets in half over the last decade has forced them to close most of the youth clubs in an attempt to reduce costs with a severely depleted pot of cash. Over 350 have been shut down in last two years. As a result they have nowhere else to go and poor and disadvantaged youths are even more vulnerable now as a result. It has led inevitably to youngsters hanging out on the street which often and inevitably leads to delinquent behaviour and crime.

All Stars Gym, since it was founded in 1974 has proved a haven and a safe place for youth to go to when they have nowhere else. A place where they gain support, strength, discipline and can be made to feel like they are part of a community, part of  a family. Boxing provides a focus for them where they previously might have had none and the coaches and volunteers who work there can fill a gap which, if left open, can  become a gateway to the wrong path.

Sadly (and painfully predictably) it is under threat by property developers who are trying to force them out so they can build more luxury flats no ordinary people can afford to live in. As if there weren’t enough already. Luxury flat occupation still stands at roughly the 50% mark across London and establishments such as All Stars Gym, who provide an essential service in the community are being forced out for something that contributes nothing and destroys something in the process.

It sounds like the cliched plot of so many hollywood films, evil property developers try to squeeze out the community that were already there and they have to fight them to survive. In the movies the plucky young heroes always defeat them in the end but in reality that is rarely the case which is why we must come to their aid. And this is more than just about protecting a gym, it is about protecting connection points in our society that bring people together, that prevent us leading isolated lives, that remind us that we are all part of the same thing.

There used to be a piece of legislation that protected entities like All Stars from exactly this kind of attack. If you bought a building it used to have to retain the identity of that building. If it was a pub, it stayed a pub. A youth club had to stay a youth club, a gym a gym etc. The property developers lobbied government and made them take out this piece of legislation designed specifically to prevent everything that has happened since. Namely the relentless dismantling and removal of London’s shared spaces and community centres. Once they took out that single law they could do what they want and they have done exactly that ever since and London has and never will be the same as a result.

We must put this legislation back in if we want to prioritise people over profit.  We must find leaders who are willing to stand up to these very powerful and wealthy corporations and put the needs of their communities first. Especially the members who need it the most. The kids who go to Allstars need Allstars. It is in integral part of their existence and gives them a lifeline they might not otherwise have. What has a property developer ever done for anyone other than themselves? The answer is nothing.

Allstars have been deliberately caught up in a legal battle by the developers who are trying to slowly snuff them out of the game. The landlord has deliberately not kept the building in good repair which means the charity cannot receive funding to help with the internal works. This has been used as a ploy to bankrupt AllStars by continually putting then in a position of going to court. Due to a technicality of such deviousness on the part of the landlord, the judge ruled costs against All Stars which is potentially ruinous.  The landlords are clearly expecting them to be out of pocket and therefore unable to pay their next rent which is due as soon as the work is completed.

We must stop them and all those like them who continue to take apart the glue and fabric of our society and give nothing back. Cities suffer, they prosper. We have allowed them to get away with it for so long and now we must do everything we can to stand up to them and say no more.

Please look at their campaign and donate and share if you can…

https://www.givey.com/allstarsboxinggym

To see the full gallery please click here

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